Signs Your Ex Boyfriend/Ex Girlfriend Still Loves You

The fact that you clicked on this article could only mean one thing…

You still have feelings for your ex.

Clinging onto hope with your ex isn’t necessarily a bad thing. It’s just that you can go absolutely crazy thinking about your ex all the time.

A good way to actually stop your mind from panicking would be to find out that your ex still has feelings for you wouldn’t it?

Well, that is exactly what this article will cover.

I will be giving you signs you can look for when your ex still loves you.

Sign #1 Your Ex Gets Angry At You

I know this sounds really counter-intuitive…

The thing that a lot of people don’t understand after a breakup is that anger doesn’t necessarily mean that your ex has stopped loving you.

In fact, if your ex is angry at you, they still care about you and they might even love you.

your ex being angry at you could actually be a sign that your ex still loves you.
Your ex being angry at you could actually be a good sign no matter how counter productive it might seem.

Think about it this way: if they didn’t care about you at all, why would they care to be angry at you? Why would they take time out of their day just to be angry at their ex who they don’t care about anymore?

Doesn’t make sense right?

Your ex being angry at you after a breakup just means that they are probably disappointed in you and they had high hopes for you but you let them down.

The thing is, you can still change this situation around.

Now, for an extended article on all the sings, your ex will give you when they love and a complete solution to get them back, head on over to

Sign #2 You Start Seeing Your Ex In Places That You Often Go To

Trust me, this is far more common than you think.

If you have some standard places you go to and then after breaking up with your ex, you start seeing them in those places regularly, it’s not by accident.

Your ex isn’t dumb. They knew you would be there. Now, once or twice might be an accident but if it starts to become more routine like than accident like, you might be onto something.

Your ex knows the places you regularly visit. They aren't dumb.
Your ex isn’t dumb. They know your regular places.

Now, this doesn’t mean you should become completely paranoid. You shouldn’t.

You should still focus on the things I have talked about like improving yourself and employing no contact.

Sign #3 Your Ex Gives You Strong Hints

This might happen too…

Your ex might hint that they are missing someone.

This could happen in social media or through text.

Pay attention to how your ex behaves on social media. Are they all of the sudden posting emotional quotes and sharing love songs?

Your ex could be signalling something to you.

Now, remember, you should be employing no contact with your ex during this time.

You shouldn’t be texting them or anything like that.

You should still be employing no contact, even though your ex is trying to talk to you.
You should still be employing no contact, even if they contact you.

The only acceptable reason for breaking no contact would be if your ex directly tells you just straight up that they want to get back together with you.

This does happen sometimes but it’s quite rare. That’s why it’s important that you stick to your guns and keep employing it.


There you have it. The three best signs your ex could give you if they still have feelings for you.

Now, remember that even if you don’t see your ex giving you any of these signs, it’s not the end of the world.

They could still have feelings for you and you still have chances of getting them back.

Anyways, good luck out there!

Will My Ex Forget Me During No Contact?

No, they won’t and it’s silly to think they will.

I know many of you have this fear when going into no contact but trust me, it’s completely irrational.

No contact is a crucial part of the journey of getting your ex back. It’s absolutely essential to employ it.

In fact, watch this video and you will understand everything better:

Is It a Good Idea To Tell Your Ex Your Feelings?

So, you still have feelings for your ex. You want them back. But should you tell them about these feelings?

Well, to be completely honest with you, no!

If you are in a situation where you want them back, you absolutely should not tell your ex about your feelings.

You see, if you just broke up with them, they will not feel any affection towards your attempts, no matter how hard you try.

You should not tell your ex how you feel. At least not for the time being.
Your ex will not feel any affection towards you if you now tell them how you feel.

After breaking up, if you haven’t already, read my guide on how to get your ex back. It’s going to guide you and give you the advice you need.

As already mentioned there though, you shouldn’t talk to your ex for at least a month after breaking up with them. Simply, they just aren’t in the right state of mind currently and you will most likely never get them back if you just keep talking to them.

I know sites like or yahoo answers can give you false ideas where people tell you that if you just confess your love to your ex, everything will be amazing and they will fall back in love with you.

Even movies are sometimes guilty of this. The main character confesses their love to their ex and all the sudden everything is sunshine and rainbows again.

Newsflash: the real world doesn’t work that way. Your ex needs to actually develop feelings of missing you if you want to have any chances of getting them back.

The real world doesn't work like movies and your ex won't actually forget all the negative things about you just because you confess your love to them.
The real world doesn’t actually work like movies.

So, just hold off and employ no contact while you improve yourself. Only when you haven’t contacted them for at least a month is the time you can think about talking to them again.

I know you might be wondering how this could ever work?

Well, the thing is, science has already proven that missing your partner can be really intense.

When you suddenly disappear from their life they will see that you aren’t a pushover and you aren’t easy.

You see, right after the breakup assuming they were the ones to break up with you, your ex most likely saw you as someone not worthy of their time. Someone lower value.

When you stop talking to them all together it shows them that you actually aren’t dependent on them and that you can live your life completely fine without them.

That is a scary thought for your ex.

After all, they still do care about you on some level, believe it or not.

Even if your ex was the one to break up with you, they still do miss some aspects of you, unless you hurt them in a really bad way of course.

That is why it’s so important that you don’t ruin this an instead listen to my advice so you have the best chances of getting your ex back.

So, there is the answer to you.

No, you shouldn’t tell your ex how you feel, at least not for the time being.

Trust me, eventually once you have done things properly, the right time will come.

How To Have The Best Chances At Getting Them Back

A lot of people are scared to make mistakes during their journey of trying to get their ex back.

Actually, people are usually scared for a good reason.

You see, one simple mistake could actually ruin your chances of getting them back forever.

One simple mistake could ruin your chances of getting them back.
One simply mistake could ruin it all…

That is why I always recommend people to either get one on one breakup coaching or to download and read a professionally designed proven breakup guide.

I actually think the latter is the way better option since it’s going to be way cheaper for you and a well designed breakup plan is equivalent to one on one consultations with a breakup coach.

The thing is, there are so many terrible breakup guides on the internet nowadays so how are you supposed to know what to read and believe?

Well, that’s why you have me.

You see, I have gone through more breakup guides than I’m willing to admit and I have found the ones that give the absolute highest chances for success when properly applied.

Namely, The Ex Factor Guide.

Why Is The Ex Factor Guide The Best Guide On The Market?

The ex factor guide is a breakup guide that has been highly associated with success in recent years.

Check out this article to read a full review of the ex factor guide and find out why it has such a high success rate.

The Ex Factor Guide is in my opinion the best dating guide on the market.
The Ex Factor Guide is in my opinion the best dating guide on the market.

Quite simply, it gives you all the tools you need to go out there and re-attract your ex in order to get a fresh start.

You get sneaky psychological tricks, advice on no contact, powerful tricks to make them crave you etc.

You name it, and it’s probably included in the ex factor guide.

In addition, you get a 60-day money back guarantee.

Basically, you can try it out for free and if for some reason you aren’t satisfied, you can ask for a full refund.

That is the reason why I think this is such a bargain.

What Comes With The Ex Factor Guide?

Upon downloading, you get to choose your gender which is another huge benefit of this guide since everybody knows that men and women function differently, yet so many guides don’t capitalize on this and just give you the same guide for both genders.

After choosing your gender, you will get to read the high quality modules of this guide.

I would recommend that you take some notes when reading this guide or at least to read it twice throughly to fully grasp everything that the author Brad Browning is teaching.

You need to really let everything sink in before you start your journey of getting them back permanently.

Luckily, the instructions are given in a really clear manner and you really can’t mess anything up.


So, in conclusion, if you want to have the absolute best chances of getting them back, you should read a professional breakup guide, namely the ex factor guide.

It’s going to give you the best possible chances of getting your ex back by eliminating all the trial and error and guesswork you would have to go through yourself.

The ex factor guide as dozens of testimonials. It's proven to work.
Ex Factor Guide testimonials.

Also, you will eliminate the risk of screwing something up in a major way which can cost you a relationship.

So, I wouldn’t take any chances here, especially when you get a 60-day money back guarantee with no questions asked.

Good luck!

Should You Do No Contact?

Yes, you should.

The end.

Ok, just kidding but that pretty much sums it up.

After a breakup, people usually beg their ex desperately to come back to them. Then after they realize it doesn’t work that way, they come and search online on ways to get their ex back.

no contact is necessary for getting your ex back.
No contact is a common tactic for a reason.

Then, once they realize that the first step almost always is to not contact your ex for at least a period of one month, they are shocked.

After all, it does seem kinda counter-intuitive to not contact your ex at all for such a long period of time.

“What if they forget about me”? is also a very common question I hear.

Well, the truth is, they won’t. Unless of course your relationship didn’t mean anything to them and lasted for like one month.

If you two were in a serious and committed relationship, there is no way in hell that they would just forget about you because you didn’t talk to them for a short period.

I see so many people trying to employ no contact but they don’t do it properly and then they claim it doesn’t work and it’s a scam.

I can guarantee you that the same people who claim these things are the people who don’t do it properly.

As soon as their ex gives them the slightest hint of interest, these people break no contact immediately. It truly saddens me to see this because when your ex starts showing you interest is when you absolutely shouldn’t break no contact under any circumstance.

You shouldn't immediately break no contact. Even if they show interest in you.
Don’t break no contact even if they show a bit of interest in you.

This is just one of the many signs that no contact is actually starting to work perfectly as intended and if you now go and break it, you have just lost all of your valuable progress.

No contact is absolutely necessary after a breakup and there is no way around that. Your ex needs time to think about things and they also need to get a feeling that they are losing something with the breakup.

If you keep contacting them non-stop without any breaks after a breakup and you don’t employ no contact during this time. You can basically forget about getting them back.

Also, during no contact, you get an awesome chance of figuring out what went wrong in your relationship and you get to fix it.

If you got too needy, great! Now you have the chance to work on yourself and figure out how you will remove this neediness.

Also, you get to do the things you couldn’t have done when you were still in a regular relationship. You can finally be free!

If you spend your no contact time wisely and try your very best to not think about your ex too much etc, your chances of getting them back after will have increased so much you can’t even believe it.

not contacting them truly is that effective!
It truly is that effective!

Also, if you for example, start dating other people during no contact, it might very well be your ex who contacts you and at that point, you know you have made it far.

Now, once you are actually finally getting in touch with your ex again after no contact, it’s really important that you don’t let them know your romantic intentions right away.

Just act in a friendly cool manner and you will be on your way to re-attracting them.

Good luck!

Signs You Still Have a Chance With Your Ex

So, you broke up and now you are wondering whether or not you actually have a chance to get them back or not.

Luckily for you, there are certain signs your ex can give you, which indicate they aren’t really over you and they might even be craving you back.

Could you still have a chance with them?

In this article, I’ll cover some of these signs so you can get a good indication of whether or not you actually still have a chance with your ex.

Sign 1 – They Talk To You a Lot

If you two have broken up and they are still constantly messaging you about anything and everything, it’s pretty clear what’s going on.

Now, if they are messaging you something where they show emotion, even better.

Do they ask you about how you are doing?

What you are up to?

These are all strong indications that you still have a very good chance of getting them back.

If they find reasons to talk to you its a very strong sign.

Now, if you yourself are not contacting your ex in any way possible aka you are employing no contact, but they are still doing whatever they can to keep in contact with you, it’s very likely that they want you back.

Are they telling you about their relationship status?

If they are, good.

This could indicate that they are trying to make you jealous which in itself is one of the best signs you could ever want that your ex is craving you back.

Sign 2 – They Seek Support From You

They might be opening up to you about life in general or some tough things that are going on.

Either way, good.

Them opening up means they still care about you and trust you so much that they are willingly telling you their deepest thoughts.

Sign 3 – They Want To Know About Your Relationship Status

If they ask you about whether or not you have a new partner in your life, something could be going on.

They might be trying to figure out if you are still open to giving your relationship a second go and this also means that they are thinking about you romantically again.

Sign 4 -They Bring Up Happy Memories

Ohh this is a good one…

If they intentionally bring up some good times you two shared together, awesome!

It means they are thinking about those times and they might even be missing them.

Bringing up happy nostalgic memories is a clear sign they are regretting breaking up with you.

They will obviously try to keep this alluding subtle but if you can catch on to it, good job!

Sign 5 – They Talk About Your Relationship

They might be asking you what happened between you two.

If they straight up ask you to discuss the ending for your relationship it’s an interesting sign.

This could simply mean that they are looking for some closure or they could be looking to discuss the possibility of getting back together with you.

You can never know for sure…

Maybe they have been doing some self-reflection and they will now apologize and want to get back together.

Sign 6 – They Ask About You

For example, if you hear through colleagues or mutual friends that your ex has been asking about you.

They might want to know how you are doing or they might want to know about your relationship status as mentioned above.

Have you heard that they have been asking about you?

Either way, this is a really good sign that you can definitely get back together with them.

Sign 7 – They Get a New Partner Fast

This might seem like a really counter-intuitive tip but hear me out.

If they get into a relationship fast after breaking up with you, it means they are in whats known as a rebound relationship.

Now, rebound relationships don’t actually last and this has been proven multiple times.

As a matter of fact, your ex might be just trying to make you jealous and they actually have no intention of staying in that relationship.

95% of rebound relationships end in a breakup in less than a year so there is a very good chance your ex will be included in this 95%.


So there you have it.

Even if you don’t see your ex giving you any of these signs, don’t panic.

Your ex could be just really stubborn or you haven’t done much to actually make them want you back.

I wrote a full guide on how to get your ex back here, so I recommend that as your next step you go and check out that article.

Thanks for reading!

Is It Hard To Get Your Ex Back?

After a breakup, you are often left wondering whether or not you can get them back and how hard will it actually be.

In this article, I’ll cover how difficult the journey you are about to face is, and whether or not you should even decide that you want to go down that road to back together with them.

Getting your ex back is definitely possible but how hard is it?

First of all, you need to understand that this will all depend on the circumstance of how you ended things.

If your relationship ended on a really negative way like either one of you cheating or being hurt in a really bad way, it’s going to impact the way you should go about getting back together.

Alright, let’s start…

So, will it be hard to get back together with your ex?

It depends…

On most of the scenarios though, probably.

Unless you are doing everything properly ( I wrote an article on this exact topic of how to get your ex back you can check it out here), it will be hard to make the get back together with you.

Step 1 – Asses Your Chances

How did you break up?

After a huge fight?

Was it months of slowly watching the spark between you two fade away?

Whatever the case is, you need to figure it out.

What notes did your relationship end on?

Then start with a period of no contact where you let your ex cool off and give yourself time to prepare yourself to actually get them back.

Step 2 – Should You Even Do It?

Alright, now that you know how it will be, it’s time to start.

First, think about whether or not you two should even get back together.

If the relationship was abusive or ended in them cheating, for example, take my advice and don’t even bother with trying to get them back.

Now, if you are certain that you do want to go through with this, start out by reading the how to get your ex back article I linked above.

Step 3 -How Long Will It Take?

Again, it depends.

I have a question for you:

Does it matter?

If you are going to try to get them back it’s way better to take things slow instead of being pushy and eventually just repelling your ex forever.

Take things slowly. It’s better to get them back slowly than let them be gone forever.

Try to act like a friend when you are in the beginning stages of getting them back.

If you follow my advice and employ no contact for at least a month, your ex should be more receptive to you after that.

Next, you need to figure out a way to meet them and then after that, your goal should be to build back the attraction they lost for you.

You need to keep all this very subtle and you can’t be too pushy. Otherwise your ex might just push you even further away from you.


So, as you can see getting your ex back is not easy but if you do it the proper way (read the guide above), you can most definitely do it!

Follow the right advice and you can definitely get them back!

You just need to be smart about things and don’t rush anything. And remember: slow and steady wins the race!

So don’t think you can get them back unless you are employing no contact and doing things the proper way.

How To Get Your Ex Back

Breakups are insanely hard to get through and if you know that they are the one, letting them go can be almost impossible.

In this article I’ll give you my advice on how to re-attract your ex and get them back.

Step 1- Eliminate Mistakes

The first thing you need to do is figure out what lead to your breakup. The bottom line is that your ex lost attraction to you but why is that?

Did you get too jealous?

Too needy?

Whatever the case is you need to focus on eliminating these negative characteristics that made you unattractive in your ex’s eyes.

Your ex lost attraction with you but why did that happen?

Then, you need to start out with a period of no contact.

No contact means that you cut off all contacts with your ex for at least a period of one month.

I know using no contact is controversial and many people claim that it doesn’t work but these people don’t do things properly.

What you need to do is try to keep yourself busy for this period after your breakup and no matter how difficult it seems, try to keep your mind off your ex.

Do some fun things like go on a road trip with your friends or start exercising to feel good about yourself.

Doing all this will heal you from your breakup way more effectively than just sitting at the couch crying.

It’s really important that you don’t message your ex during this time at all.

You don’t want to seem insecure, desperate or anything associated with unattractiveness.

Don’t message them how much you still love them, how much you miss them or anything related to that. In fact, Don’t message them at all!

Otherwise, you ruin the whole point of no contact and there is no reason to employ it then.

Also, cut off all reminders of them during this time so that means you will not stalk them on social media.

This way you avoid starting to over-analyze every little thing your ex does or says, which won’t lead to anywhere.

Step 2 – Start Your Journey

Once you feel like you are ready to move on from the first step it’s time to start actually getting them back.

During this time your key thing to focus on is find out a way to change yourself to a more attractive person.

Self-improvement is really important.

This might mean getting some new clothes and hitting the gym along with a new haircut but if you are actually serious about getting them back, it’s worth it.

The goal is to change back into that attractive person that your ex fell for at the beginning of your relationship while eliminating all the unattractive characteristics that led to your breakup.

After your breakup your ex and you both will be feeling some really negative emotions which is normal considering you have just gone through a breakup.

You should be giving them time to slowly return to being more receptive to actually getting back with you.

This is exactly what’s happening when you are employing no contact.

Also if you dare, you could start hanging out with your opposite sex now, since this will make your ex jealous and jealousy is a really powerful tool you can use to get them back.

Quite honestly, if your ex gets jealous about you, you have already won. They can’t help themselves once this happens.

Going out with/dating other people during this period is one of the best ways to create jealousy because once your ex finds out about this they will get jealous.

Step 3 – Contact

If you have created jealousy within them and healed from your breakup correctly by employing no contact you next step will inevitably be to contact them.

The best way to do this is to text them something where you act as a friend instead of a lover.

You could ask them to quickly grab a bite to catch up.

You can get a great full in-depth guide and a tutorial on how to get your ex back by following ).

Keep a positive attitude during all of this and avoid anything negative such a talking about your breakup or anything bad that happened.

You are trying to show them that you have changed into a more attractive version of yourself and that other people are wanting to date you.

Show them that you are high value again.

This will inevitably make them more and more attracted to you.

Another key thing is flirting.

As all of you already probably know, flirting is a super important aspect of attracting someone. When you flirt, you are subconsciously sending signals to their brain that build attraction within them.

So, you should definitely try to throw some light flirting in to the mix when you are meeting them. Don’t be afraid of this since you definitely don’t want to get friend-zoned after all the hard work you have put in before.

Step 4 – Getting Back Together

Now, unless you have some really special skills, its going to take more than one meeting to re-attract them and get back together.

Just know that by following the proper advice you can do it!

If your ex is having a good time at this first meeting its inevitable that they will want to eventually get back together with you.

It’s only a matter of time before you get them back once they see how attractive you are again.

You are once again attractive to them and they see you as a high value mate instead of as a needy unattractive person like they most likely did before.


That’s all for today.

I really hope you read this whole thing through with thought and maybe even took some notes. Following all this advice will definitely guide you to get the love of your life back.

Have fun getting them back!

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